Client Dependency

All through the life of the change process, the drivers tend to be based around growing the relationship - improving the association so that you develop a high degree of trust and responsiveness with the client. However, as this relationship grows, so the level of dependence grows between the various players. The trouble is that at the end of the day, both you and the client have to let go and break away from the relationship. The onus is on you to ensure that at the point of departure all unnecessary levels of dependence have gone from the relationship.

Although not seen in all consulting projects, a common pattern is seen in Figure 67. The first stage is where you meet the client. There is still a freedom of choice about the relationship, like a couple out on a first date sizing each other up. Once there is an agreement that a relationship will be formed, you will typically have quite a high level of dependency on the client. You will need help to understand the working of the system, access to the right people and confirmation that the initial work seems to be effective. However, once the process goes in the Create and Change stages, there is a shared dependency - both parties have invested time and reputation is the relationship and cannot afford to see it fail at this stage. Once beyond this, you are probably coasting and might well be starting to think about the next project. However, now the client has a strong dependency on you to prove that the outcome is as agreed otherwise it might reflect poorly on him or her. At the final stage, both you and the client should be back at the start of the loop, able to reflect on the relationship in the cold light of day. It is from this rational position that any decision is taken to pursue further options for working together.

Problems can arise where you try to close the relationship while the client is still dependent on you. Change projects often fail because the consultant has gone and the client and the consumer are left high and dry without the real confidence or ability to run with the change.

Dependence is a positive state only when both parties are aware of the condition. If one or both groups is unaware of the reliance, then this can only lead to an unhealthy situation. Your goal is to develop a relationship that is based upon a sprit of mutual interdependence.

 

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